Receiving messages from loved ones who have passed away can be an incredibly emotional and overwhelming experience for someone. The desire to connect with those we’ve lost comes with a flood of feelings—joy, sadness, nostalgia, regret, and sometimes confusion. I personally believe, that as a medium, I carry a profound responsibility of not only in ensuring I can fulfill spirit's intention, but also to honour the emotions and the unique journey of the person I am doing the reading for—to compassionately guide them through the intricacies of loss and inspire life.
The impressions from the spirit world can flow rapidly, diving deep into significant matters of the heart in what feels like an instant. This makes it important to be mindful of how we deliver these messages, as the entire experience can overwhelm others and create a whirlwind of emotions. While the evidential exchange can highlight a rich and profound connection that significantly impacts someone’s life for the better, there is also a risk of information overload and intensified emotional distress for the sitter. Do no harm; approach each session with sensitivity, integrity, and awareness of the profound impact this exchange can have.
why messages are important
Messages from the other side can inspire resilience and empower individuals to confront their challenges with renewed strength and hope. By conveying love, encouragement, and wisdom, these messages remind us that we are not alone in our struggles and that the bonds we share with our loved ones endure beyond physical presence.
Comfort in Grief — Grief can feel isolating, but receiving messages can make individuals feel less alone. Knowing that their loved ones are still present in some way can provide immense comfort, helping them navigate the grieving process.
Emotional Healing — Messaging can facilitate emotional healing by allowing individuals to express unspoken feelings, seek closure, and find answers to lingering questions about their loved ones. This process can help alleviate the pain of loss and promote a sense of relief.
Support and Guidance — Messages can provide guidance during challenging times. Hearing words of encouragement or wisdom from a departed loved one can empower individuals to face difficulties with resilience and hope.
impact of delivery
Remember every person who sits in front of you to receive a message from their loved one on the other side is grieving on some level. Whether it has been 3 months or 20 years, the pain of loss can resurface unexpectedly. Greif is a unique emotional journey, shaped by their experiences, their relationship, and the memories associated with their loved one, (memories that can sometimes be less than pleasant). Every person's grief manifests differently, and honouring your sitters feelings by being attentive to their emotional state, while validating their experiences, and considerate of how you are tailoring your communication to help them navigate their loss.
Every impression we receive carries essential information that not only validates our connection but also channels healing energy. It’s perfectly fine to take your time and allow for moments of silence during this process. This not only helps you to find clarity around the impressions you receive, it also provide the recipient a chance to process the connection with their loved one, catch their breath, and reflect on what you have shared. This aids in their healing turning what could be an overwhelming barrage of information into a meaningful and transformative conversation with the other side.
Ultimately, being able to balance the flow of impressions with compassion and patience is key to facilitating a supportive and impactful experience for your sitter. Here are a few other things to consider:
- Focus on uplifting messages that promote healing. Uplifting messages convey hope, love, and reassurance encouraging a celebration of life that supports your sitter to move forward with renewed strength.
- Validate your sitters feelings. Facilitate discussions that allow recipients to express unspoken emotions or unresolved issues. Offering guidance on how to let go of lingering pain can contribute to the healing process.
- Offer words of encouragement. Encouraging sitters to embrace their own strength and to find joy in life again can lead to profound emotional growth and a sense of peace. The words you use can uplift and heal, while careless phrasing may deepen wounds or cause misunderstandings.
- Be gentle when delivering difficult messages. Use empathetic language and a soothing tone tailoring the delivery in a way that is truthful while also being compassionate. Difficult messages may need to be conveyed, but this can be done respectfully and in a way that truly honours your sitter.
As mediums, we have the unique privilege and responsibility to help others navigate their delicate emotional terrain, to both deliver messages and support our sitters in their healing journeys. The power of these messages lies not just in the information we share, but in the comfort, validation, and guidance they offer to those who are grieving. By approaching each reading with compassion, empathy, and patience, we create a safe space for our sitters to process their emotions and connect with the healing energy from their loved ones. Ultimately we can help transform what might feel overwhelming into a meaningful exchange that promotes healing and renewal—a sacred exchange between the seen and unseen, guiding others to find solace, discover hope, and celebrate the enduring bonds of love.